Guys dating black women
I was walking home from the grocery store and I saw an interracial couple.I put on a smile, trying to convince the brother and the woman that I was not mad at them just because we were walking down the street at the same time.
Wondering if people are judging him for dating a black chick in the first place. I was far more sensitive to people's preferences or perceived rejections of me and my work then.Some of it was youth, some of it was my personal background.In a long and storied dating life, I've only had meaningful relationships with a few black men. Of course, our numbers (black women) are greater and many more of us are single, but that's sociological and statistical in a way that love never is.And I certainly don't want to waste my precious life taking the dating preferences of black men personally.
It was my work as a freelancer that ended up cementing for me the importance of perspective as it relates to rejection. It is hard to feel like men outside of the black community don't view you as attractive, and then, within the African American community, when a black man has similar life experiences to you, he's probably not going to be attracted to you, but to someone who is "easier" to be with.