Deaf and blind dating
This is a common problem in "mixed marriages." ..him down and tell him that he has to learn because you guys aren't communicating.
It is easier for him to learn signs and impossible for you to learn to hear..."-BLUIZJUDY"..wouldnt learn SL...wasnt that hard on me but...sometimes I couldnt understand him. Start talking to him in SL and act like you cant understand him at all if he tries to talk to you without signing or make him repeat all the time and eventually he would get tired of repeating himself and then he would ask you for some help in learning the SL.
It took time, patience, laughter, and tears but we worked it out and we've been married for 26 years now."-FUZZYPEN"..bought him a book of SL so he can learned somewhat something is going wrong he didnt after all just wee bit just brief talk...
If she has to repeat something more than once it can be very embarrassing, especially if we are in company, because she starts to get irritated with me and I start to feel flustered, making it even more difficult for me to concentrate and understand what's being said.hurtful..have my own wife shouting irritatedly at me does not make me feel any more secure in myself..."-ROWLANDT1"married to hearing guy, he use the only communication with me in SL but sometime I use my voice...important to tell your husband how do you feel...maybe give him few options like lipreading test/Speech reading, if you said the following phrases with no voice.When I commucate with deaf he wants to know what we were saying...impatience with him when he speaks not sign..."-DEAFBABE42"married to hearing man for more than 19 years.When I first met him, I told him, he had to learn asl..not going to read anyone's lip for the rest of my life. sorry to see others who had to force themselves to read their spouses' lips.When he had time to cool off and I needed him for something, I would sign behind his back; then touch his shoulder and sign with more emphasis - letting him know that he'd ignored me.He'd say..couldn't see behind him and I'd said that I couldn't speech read him when he had his head in the closet either.
See if your husband think you said I love you, Elephant Shoe, Olive Juice, island view, I'll have two..with your friend, if your family ask you what you just talk with your friend, tell them none of their business. Now I never feel left out when I eat dinner with my family..."-CILJ"wife who is hearing and she can sign very well.