Dating someone in a gang
After awhile, I applied myself to a test here and there, but failed. Back at school I started to analyze the people who were around me.I began to feel I was stupid, never relating my slacking off to my problem. The cool crowd was full of people who spoke behind each others backs.I hope you make the right choices while the options remain open to you. New Jersey I just want to know if the gang showed you more love than your parents? Even though I no longer am affiliated, I am still judged by these tattoos. Soon after I started to meet new people and was making friends.Why is it that the same excuse also comes up "That's all that was around where I lived". Lupita Hey Lupita, My name is Angel and I'm in a good mood. The gang only showed me to be more of a fool and that your homeboys are not always going to be there for you no matter how much you say you love them. I started hanging out with the cool crowd and sitting at their table during lunch. Justin Justin, The kind of things we do in a gang is mostly fighting.We fight against other gangs to show pride for our own gang, but in reality, we dont even know what were fighting for. Someone who cares California Would you think gang life is fun Tim Tim, You asked if the gang life is fun. The fun is for a minute but it costs a lifetime of pain. California Tim, At the time I was hanging with the gang, yes I thought it was fun.Compromising more and more, I started to forget who I was. I started to think I had no future because of the gang mentality. So, to answer your question, joining a gang changed my life as a whole by ending it - with the chance to live only to feel it. New Jersey I am 14 years old and live in the Chicago area. Stay away from them and be someone who can help them get out.
Many look at the one guy who is head of a gang with plenty of friends and money. Even when it doesnt, he needs to be constantly aware that someone might try to do something to him and his family and friends because of his position.The guy you give a place to stay as a favor might have just escaped from prison; the car you drop off might have drugs, guns, or a body in it.Explanations to the police that you knew nothing about what was going on never go over good, and get women one-way tickets to prison.I broke from that group and started to look for people who I thought were more like me.I was jumped by this gang in school and days later I stuck up for myself.
A sense of belonging to something, ideas that you have the protection of may others, and with many, the easy solution as far as some money by either selling drugs, doing other crimes, or being taken care of with what you need by the other members of the gang. No one thinks about doing things for other people and being used to carry out their personal ideas, going to prison, getting hurt or killed, or getting your family hurt or killed.