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It concerns me that you are so decided about the celibacy. Isn’t the natural tendency of all male-female relationships to move towards “a loving relationship and more”?
By cutting off this possibility at the start, you are trying to exercise total control and deny the relationship any spontaneity or surprise.
People who go to the well-established introduction agencies are not looking for a celibate relationship and these agencies have very little to offer women of your age, which is why they won’t take you on. I think it would help you to have a coach or guide like Paula Rosdol, an American businesswoman with extensive experience of internet dating.
She has set up a service helping women to negotiate dating on the internet by working on their profiles, talking through what they’re really looking for and helping them sift the responses.
Or you might not be able to face the idea of an elderly male body not functioning as it once did either.
You live in the middle of London, which is a huge advantage.
That depends, I suspect, on your reasons for choosing celibacy.
You could have philosophical and religious reasons for choosing to deny the sexual part of yourself. You could have boxed yourself into the corner of thinking that your body no longer bears inspection or that it might not function in the way it once did.
I logged on and I can’t say I saw anybody who I would have wanted to meet, but you never know until you try.
You say you are prepared to spend money on this search.
On your doorstep are more social and cultural opportunities than I could shake a stick at.